Got tagged by queenofbaras! ‘w’
Nickname: Etch, Etchpea, Jhena
Birthday: Feb 8th
Height: 4’11” HAHAHAH
Time zone: central
What time and date is it there: 8:34, 8/29/14
Average hours of sleep I get each night: It really depends, sometimes it’s like 9 hours and sometimes it’s 4
OTPs: hahahHHHAh… um my big ones are (game of thrones) jaime/brienne, sam/gilly, sansa/sandor (free!) haruka/rin, haruka/makoto, rin/nitori, rei/nagisa, rin/sousuke, rin/sousuke/nitori (KLK) mako/gamagori, ryuko/satsuki, mako/ryuko, a lil nonon/satsuki too
The last thing I Googled was: ”ffxiv bomb minion”, just wanted a ref for a drawing
First word that comes to mind: WROUGHT FROM THE ROCK THAT STANDS UPON OLD (that song is in my head)
What I last said to a family member: "what are you guys up to?" texted to my dad, and reassuring my brother that I’m not going to London this weekend
One place that makes me happy and why: Disney World! Chrissy and I go on vacations there once in a while, so we have lots of memories there
How many blankets I sleep under: 1 blanket, and a comforter when it’s cold
Favorite beverage: coke :’)
The last movie I watched in the cinema was: Guardians of the Galaxy
Three things I can’t live without: My gf, cats, and art
Something I plan on learning: h-how to draw landscapes better
A piece of advice for all my followers: Always remember to take time for yourself, give yourself time and space and kindness when you need it.
You have to listen to this song: since it’s in my head - Under the Weight (Titan’s theme in ffxiv)
My blog(s): they are!
etchpea- my main art blog
sketchpea - personal blog
etchporn - nsfw blog
tierav - inspirations blog
Jhena the White - ffxiv blog
aaand I tag Kylogram, Bskizzle, and my bb CDKayBee!
I (lovingly) called a (completely fictional) character a “buttslut” and someone tagged it with “slur” “really gross slur” “ugh”
like idk maybe I’m totally off the mark but that just makes me laugh that of all things it would be “buttslut” that is ~SOOO GROSS~
sometimes crying like a little bitch reinforces your relationships with people and ends up feeling real good.
I’m really happy to have such a great partner and such a great family.
I don’t generally cry but when I do I cry for like an hour
okay so here’s a text post:
people do not care about you in the same way you care about them, because we are all different types of people. your level of investment in something will never be equally matched by another person, because you are invested in things in different ways. and your priorities WILL vary, no matter how closely you think they line up at one time. trying to force people to feel the same way about you that you do about them will only lead to conflict.
people change and grow. you will hurt people, people will hurt you, you will hurt each other. maybe you’ll over-rely on someone in a moment of great need and irrevocably sever a close bond. i’ve done it more than once, and i’ve been the one it’s been done to as well. both sides hurt.
in recent years i have renewed relationships with people on both sides of this experience because here’s the second caveat: give it time to settle. give yourself time to settle, give the other person time to settle. grow and find new people, make new priorities. if you come back around to each other, talk it out. you will probably find that your connections faded, because connections aren’t as sacred as we make them out to be. once you’ve done new things you will be new people, and maybe then you’ll realize you weren’t going down the same path to begin with. and that’s fine. life is taking us all to different destinations. old friends don’t have to be best friends for your whole life. old friends don’t have to be your friends at all.